The difference

I've always wanted a sister because all I have are brothers. I envy at people who has sister or both sister and brother. A sister is always someone who I can have girls talk with and the one that go shopping with and hang out with which these doesn't seem to come with brother. But when I complaint about not having a sister, someone else envy me of having all brothers. They said I would be the most precious one in the family and that's not really true.

As I'm in a single-parent family now, I have all the responsibilities as a girl in a house should do when my mum is not around like cooking for my brothers, washing the clothes then drying them, waking my brothers up, paying the bills, feeding my dogs, etc. Imagine a girl buying groceries all by herself. All of these has been forcing me to be more independent because there are nobody to relay on. I was tired of it before and thinking why I have to do all these and why these responsibilities doesn't fall on my brothers. Is like everyone including my relatives is hoping me to do everything just like a role of a mum(or I can say like a maid =.=). Yet, come to think of it now, I've become more mature and appreciate everything that happens and we don't take things for granted. My mum has all the responsibilities of the house and I only have part of it and yet I'm bragging all about it. My mum should be the tired one and not me. She never complain about it and said the journey of our life is a homework that God gives us. She believes that everything happens for a reason and what you are doing now might be paying for what you have done before or your passed life. There is also something call fate. If it is meant to be happen, you can avoid it, you can only face it. Just like who we met, it is also a kind of fate.

So, back to the topic. Having brothers around is nice in a way that they are know expert in something that we don't. For example, computers, cars, phones, or other electrical devices. It's just like by nature they know more about those. Any problem, look for them. They will help or if they cant help, they will have friend who knows. From this part, I felt lucky to have brothers around. One part that I don't like one of my brother is that he will always say negative things that would bring you down. Like when you're going in a competition, he'll say sure lose one, why still want to train so hard. Besides that, he'll always say I look fat when I'm actually underweight and my hairstyle or clothes is ugly =.=. Sometimes, I feel like really wanna smack him..ishhhhh..

Well, for sister I only can imagine and feel it through my friends who has sister. Sister will always be someone who brings you out, buying things for you, anything good they'll share with you, can wear their clothes or shoes, and many many more. Sister is the best partner when all your friends are busy or when there is a sudden plan that you wanna do. Although I don't have real sister, I'm glad that I have friends to be just like my sisters and they treat me just like their sister too =)

I still believe everything happens for a reason. So appreciate everything you have before you lose them and regret for you have done or have not done. Trust me, I have been through it. Family is always the most important part in our life because they will always support you no matter what happens.